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Wait for what I want or settle for the guys who want me?

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Question - (3 August 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 August 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am 21 years old girl and i have never had a boyfriend but i would love to have one.

There are a few guys that i know are interested in me but none of them are the kind of guy i am attracted to.

But my question is, should i continue waiting until someone i truly like feels the same way (i've been doing this for years).

Or should i start dating someone that i'm not that into.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (3 August 2010):

Honeypie agony auntNever settle.

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A female reader, mimisoph3 United States +, writes (3 August 2010):

mimisoph3 agony auntsometimes if you wait you miss out on the good stuff.i was just like you i always waited for that prince charming and all the men that were attractive to me i let down..and look at me still alone ha.so dont go through my steps.i think you should just go out with guys you have the most incommon with doesnt have to do with the looks just the personality.sometimes we take so much time judging the looks we forget about the real person inside them..and even if it doesnt go as you planned or as you want it to be at least you wont be alone and you'll have some kind of an advanture you might actually find a guy that isnt your type but you still get attractive to (opposites attract)but if it doesnt go to well its okay you will wake up the next day sunshine will shine on your face and theres many more men out there just dont sit and wait for the perfect guy cuz theres really no such thing as a guy that has everything you ask for those are the theater boys(the ones we go in the theater and watch movies that they are in LOL) good luck :)

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A female reader, Romani United States +, writes (3 August 2010):

Start going it on dates - after all that doesn't mean you have to be their girlfriend. good luck

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A male reader, Anadin United Kingdom +, writes (3 August 2010):

Anadin agony aunti dont think it is fair to do that to them, just settling for someone is not the best option, you cannot give 100% to the relationship that way and eventually you may regret your decision.

you might also have high standards? what do you wantbin a guy, what feeling are you looking for? if its a feeling movies always talk about...they lie.

try and be friends with blokes before you think about dating them cause atm i gather you just keep them at a distance and gauge their interest in you? not a good way to do this. make friends then ull have a better idea on if you like them or not.

ps soz for spelling, using a new touchphone lol

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