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writes:So basically here is this weird situation. I have been together with this girl for 4 months. 6 months ago she broke up with her boyfriend because of his cheating and says that she has no feelings for him, would never sleep with him etc. Yet i notice they still talk so a month ago I told her there's no reason to still be friends with him. They were together for 3 years, so now she talks to him like every other day because he "understands her" and her family problems, gives her advice etc. NOT to mention that he still buys her lunch(they work in same building) and get this, gives her money or pays her bills if she needs it! of course she wouldn't tell me this i found out, I thought they stopped talking but she lied. Apparently he feels sorry for her and wants to help her still. How should I feel that she has a MUCH closer connection with her Ex then with me? and she even admits he wants to sleep with her but she says "don't worry I wont let him."I love her but should run away huhh?
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reader, Jesc +, writes (4 August 2010):
 WOW. That sounds very nice for someone who cheated on her and they never want to deal with her again...
I think it is very wrong. He is crossing bound ires that should not be crossed. I'm sure you have tried to talk to her. Yet try to let her know this is becoming a ship that's sinking. She needs to know this is bugging at you like this.
Only do this if you feel like you two have something. You've only dated for 4 months you say, I'm sure that you two shared good memories. But I wouldn't except to stay. I believe she will fight you on this very much so. I can not blame her fighting on a guy who will be easy to pay your bills etc. But if I had a mate, and another guy giving me money like he is. I would not disrespect him the way she is you.
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