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*nderson smith
writes:Dear cupid, I've got to go to my older brother's wedding on Saturday just can't get woman to go with me. If I can't get a girlfriend by Saturday I won't get to go to my older brother's wedding. I'm very shy with women and I've tried everything to get one.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (5 August 2010):
 If your that shy, maybe you can do some wedding tasks.. handing out drinks, or giving out the wedding hymns.. something to make sure you communicate with people, and have a reason to start conversation with them.
People always need help at weddings, Opportunities will come up where your brother and his bride needs someone to do something for the people there, and that's your chance to converse and meet someone...
Don't be shy, please not on this day, be as proud and as comfortable as your brother is. Half the people there are your new family and friends, they will have been in the brides life for a long time, and there will be opportunities for you to meet them again.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (5 August 2010):
Go to the wedding as a single man.. weddings are the best place to meet and talk to a woman. Your brother will have single female friends, so will the bride and her family. You'll be at a social event that lasts for hours, you will have reason to talk to anyone there, because your the brother of the groom.
I know your shy, and I know this is hard, but I want you to challenge yourself this one time. Take time to look over the single ladies there, make a note of which one's you like and which one's you'd like to talk to. Don't worry, the women will be doing exactly the same.
Everyone looks their best at a wedding, and all the single people are on the look out for a mate.
As the brother of the groom it is your responsiblity to make sure that everyone at the wedding is having fun. This allows you to walk up to any stranger, thank them for coming and ask if their having fun. You'll be part of the wedding party, so you'll be the centre of attention. If women don't know who you are, they will ask you, or as a form of conversation you can explain that your the single brother, and say something funny or nice about your brother, or the wedding, the cake, gifts, or remember some story about you and him from the past.
Right, now go out and enjoy yourself, be social and charming to everyone you meet... even if you don't find a lady, you may find a friend, and friends have single women who are looking for a nice man to date.
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reader, anderson smith +, writes (5 August 2010):
anderson smith is verified as being by the original poster of the questiondear cupid i've no friends to ask and no women friends either to ask i'm trying my best to find one but i just don't get anywhere with women. there must be something wrong with me. i'm 5ft 6inh tall and weight 11st 9lbs i'm going bald maybe it because i'm shy that i get nowhere with women. in your appion do you think i've any chance of ever finding one because does not look like i will
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (4 August 2010):
 You can rent a friend on craigslist
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2010): instead of looking for a woman by saturday why dont you take ur best female friend. it might not be the same but at least you will have someone familiar to talk to. taking a random woman who you have only just met to a wedding may put her off. i say taking a friend would be a better choice. either that or hire an escort? only an idea... good luck with the wedding and have fun xx
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