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writes:i had abortion 6 weeks ago i know it was for the best because i got a 6 month old baby and i got 2 older kids but i just feel so depressed, one min i want to cry the next im lashing out i cant talk to my oher half about this cus he think i want an argument.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (3 August 2010):
 Aside from CaringGuy's advice you REALLY need to start being on birth-control if you don't want any more kids right now.
Men in general don't understand how devastating an abortion is for a women.
Find a hot line or a support group, talk to others who have been though it.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 August 2010):
I think you need to go and see a professional counsellor who will be able to help. You live in Britain, so it's worth trying to find a specialist support group, or maybe go to your GP and say that you're feeling depressed about it so you can get help. Don't be afraid to get help, as your children will need you to be there for them (I'm sure you are anyway). So try to get help from a support group.
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reader, Chiavennasca +, writes (3 August 2010):
He won't think you want to have an argument. Listen to me, you HAVE to talk to him. It was only 6 weeks ago, this is not something you can go through alone. There is nothing else I can say to you. Please, please, please talk to your partner. It's the only way you can move forward, both of you, together.
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reader, Jodie-agony aunt-27 +, writes (3 August 2010):
 Firstly, i think that you should consider some counselling to get over the grief and anger which you are currently going through. In my opinion the counselling which you could attend, could help you to confide in your partner about your feelings. You never know he might actually be feeling the same way inside, even if he's not technically showing it like yourself. Good luck!
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