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writes:Hi, i need an advice, i think my boyfriend is ignoring me. In the past, he dissapear for over one month, but he appear and told me he was very sorry for it, that he really missed me and he know he did bad, because he found he was getting emotional with me and he got scared. I gave he an opportunity because he promised me, he would not do the same thing again. After thet we were sharing just fine, but then i got pregnant, but i have an abort because i was going to have a misccarriage because of my medical conditions and the baby will come with problems, i told him, anyways he told me he was not prepared to be a father. He was very supportive the several day after that. Then on a friday i visited him, we sprend a good night, it have been like 12 days since my abort. Then on saturday he told me h e was going to spend some days with his friends and de said he will call me, but that dis he didnt call at all, i called once but didnt answer. The next day i received a text from him, he told me he stayed at a friends house because he was alittle drunk and his friends, when he arrived to his home he text me and i called him. He told me he was tired and was going to eat something, and was going to call me. He didnt call me, i text him after several hours asking it he was ok, and that i neede his help for my next visit to the doctor,he disnt answer me, i realiza that maybe he was sleeping, but in the nighy i called him and he got the phone but suddenly hang up, I didnt call him more. The next day monday, i just text him once, telling him that i was a little worry, arouend 11 pm a called him again and no answer. So today tuesday, i just send him a text telling him that i was worry, that i really trust on his promise that he will not dissapear like in the past, because he is behaving like that. He havent yet answer me or call me, i dont know what to do or think. He told me about twoo weeks ago he wanted me to go with him to a trip, i also ask him before if he wanted to share with other persons, and he told me that dont see thing were they are not. He was very nice on friday, the last day we share,he hug me, kissed me and took me from the hand. Bit after this weekend, he acted strangely, on friday i ask him if we could share on saturday and he said on low voice i dont think so, then he changed jsut joking. after all he went supposly with his friends. i dont know what to tjink or do, i am so sad with all the se situation, the lost of my baby, and know the person i trusted is behaving like this with me..
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): Sometimes you give opportunity, thinking people worth it and they are truly sorry. But this was not my luck, he was so weird, he called me after the 2 days of not knowing of him, and telling me he had many problems, we hang up and i told him i will call him next day, when he feeled more relaxed so he can give me teh directions to go to my apointment. But when i called him next day, he took the phone and yelled to me what did i want and he hang up. Then he sended me a text telling we that the best was not too see us again, and he was sorry about what happened between us. He also sended me a message telling me not no call him again or text me, because he was not going to read or answers, that if i did i was loosing my time with him. I get so mad at him and sad at the same time, i calmed down and needed to tell him a lot of things that were inside me. I wrote him an email, telling him that he was just a coward and a liar, because he told me that after my abortion he will be there for me and that we will keep sharing , and all those were lies, I also told him that he was a coward because he was hiding behind the cellular , just sending me cruel text message, i told he he was not a brave person, he knows just to hurt person and doesn't care about me. i also told him that not to worry, that as he said, I will never call him or write to him, that this was my last letter, but i needed to express how i feel about him. So after that, i didnt see him more on my profile friends, he just deleted me. Which means he really didnt care, he just a person that care about himself, doesnt give the face to confront problems, he just hides, because i did anything bad to him, if he really care, he would gave me the face and tell me he can not be with me in other ways, and not to tell me , i was loosing my time, if i called or write...i feel sad and angry at the same time, but after all i also wish him the best because i know how to be a decent women...
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (4 August 2010):
 Your boyfriend dumped you and you had no idea..Let him call you, dont act all desperate and keep on texting and calling..if he cares he'll call and obviously he has proven he doesnt care. I suggest watching that movie He's Just Not that Into You, theres also a book I would also suggest reading that too
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