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writes:I'm a teenager and I normally don't take my relationships to seriously. The last relationship I was in lasted for about two and a half months. Unfortunatly I got really attatched to him!!! On the fourth of July he told me that his parents were making him break up with me. Well I have a gut feeling that he was lying to me about the whole " parents" thing! Well anyhoo the following day we got back together. The next night he went to a party and ended up liplocking with this other chick. At that point I was broken I told myself that I was going to give up on love. Till this day we tell each other that we love each other every time we talk. In about five days we will have been apart for a whole month. When we broke up he told me that when he is ready to settel down he would get back together with me. He told me that he did want to marry me but wants to have fun while he is young. Do you think I should let him go or just wait or have fun while I wait??? I need advice. I think I'm to young to make the right choice for myself:(
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reader, M€9@/\/ +, writes (4 August 2010):
M€9@/\/ is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI thank all of you for the advice.... I feel really stupid for even having to ask... On the inside I knew the right answer I just didn't want to exept it!!! But now that I hear from you I think I should enjoy myself while I have my youth! Once again thank you for your help!:)
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (3 August 2010):
 "I think I'm to young to make the right choice for myself:("
That is quite possibly the most mature thing I've ever heard come out of a teenagers mouth. It's a big bad world out there with millions of people to date... The chances of finding your soul-mate out of the "x" amount of guys at your school is astronomical.
Have fun while you're young and care-free, you have decades to worry about marriage, kids, mortgages and wot-not. Settle down when you know who you are, what you want and meet a guy who loves you for you... no matter what. Oh.. and who isn't a douche... ;)
Best of luck :)
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reader, johannabanana +, writes (3 August 2010):
 Just stay friends with him and have fun dating and seeing other people. Just let things take their natural course don't stop yourself from falling in love with someone else. because that is just apart of growing up. And he will probably fall for a couple of people as well and you don't want to feel hurt when he is head or heels crazy about another girl. Just take things easy and when your an adult you can start thinking seriously.
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reader, Felisha Marie +, writes (3 August 2010):
 I don't think age is exactly the thing to prosecute here. I will say, you are showing maturity on your part be having the realization that you need some assistance making a tough decision like this at especially a young age.
My dear, my first instinct to say to these questions are hon, if you have to ask- YOU'RE NOT READY. But, I realize that's a tad unsatisfying and really doesn't answer in detail.
SO, you're emotionally attached typical. I would advise trying to break yourself away- guy seems like bad news. I think you still need to figure yourself out, that will allow yourself t have a clearer view of what's going on right in front of you. Examine your inner wants and needs, explore who you are, worry about you. Try to see what's out there because nobody likes being old living with regrets.
best of luck.
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reader, neptune +, writes (3 August 2010):
 At this age you shouldnt think about settling down.Relationships are hard work that requiere consideration for the other person.Love is something that you cant think about yourself anymore.you have to think about the other person.If he says that he loves you and is ready to settle down he wouldnt think about "having fun while hes young". Once you know that you love someone no other girls or guys should play a factor in your relationship.
So i would say let him go. what if while hes having fun while hes young he meets another girl and decides he loves her as well or even more then youll be the one who ends up loosing. Dont settle down your too young and just enjoy being young.
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