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writes:If you meet somone and you then develop feelings for them and then love them, will it not matter to you if they've had too many partners or hardly any at all. No matter what age (be it 20, 30 or 40)?Just asking out of curiosity as I'm not the most experienced so I would like to think that even if it took me until 40 to find someone I love it will not matter to them that I haven't had much experience (I'm 22 btw and only had 2 short term girlfriends).I'm not a weirdo or a loser, I am sociable but I just haven't met te right person yet. Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (5 August 2010):
 Before I met my husband I always ask the million dollar question "How many have u slept with"? The only reason women ask it is to weed out the man whores..Then I met my husband and at that point I didnt care..And i know his number was high, but then again I though I love this man and want to be his wife..who am I to judge u on ur past when all i know is who he is now? Its a number thats all it is..just know when u find that right person, theyre the only 1 that matters and ur their last!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2010): dont worry about it. i have only had one sexual partner and im still with him. my boyfriend has slept with over 80 women and he dosent care that i was inexperienced when i met him. i dont mind that he has slept with so many others either. to me its down to whether you feel comfortable knowing or not. at the end of the day, when you meet the right person its just a number and it will be you that that person will be coming home to at the end of the night. good luck with finding Mrs Right xx
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reader, TimmD +, writes (3 August 2010):
 It should not matter how many partners your love interest has had. Try not to let it worry you. If you find the right girl, she won't care how many you've had. Don't rush, and don't feel like you need multiple partners. Wait for the right girl....
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