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writes:I have a girlfriend of 7 months and my head has been so twisted the last 1.5 months about what to do... Some times I could see me being with her but the next day I want to end it all. She is very moody and gets poutty when something disappoints her, I am very sarcastic and laid back so poutty turns me way off...I just would like suggestions of what I should do in this situation...I really care about this girls feelings because she is a nice girl when she wants to be and I really don't want to hurt her...We have already broken up once and i took her back because I felt so bad. She always needs to get her way though Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2010): I can relate to the girl in this question... unfortunatly...
maybe you should leave her if it bothers you that much.
for me being on the other side, you start to hate yourself because she probably realizes that she sounds pouty and moody. Sometimes it's hard for me because I just can't make my laid back sarcastic man understand that what he says hurts me sometimes. pouty and moody can mean that she doesn't know how to communicate with you since you are on two different scales in the personality department. I don't know a man who isn't french who finds that attitude attractive... however there are men who love the one they are with no matter what because they relish in the good times and it makes it easier to look past the bad. I have had a few good examples of that in my life and so it makes it hard to deal with someone who just simply turns away from me when i'm upset. Maybe try a new way of communicating how you feel about her on a daily basis. Look up the different languages of love like physical emotional.... that sort of thing. figure out what yours is and then ask her to figure out the same then try using it... I would love to try this with my man but he's in iraq for a year. GOOD LUCK!
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reader, mimisoph3 +, writes (3 August 2010):
 this isnt good. you cant do something in a relationship just because you "feel bad" if you feel like it isnt working then end it doesnt matter about how "bad" you'll make her feel if you feel like she isnt worth your time and is bipolar(not saying you said it..but i am) then get over it. stop trying to satisfy everyone if you worry about her "feelings" and "inside problems" then you'll lose your own independance..honestly it seems to me like you stay with her just because your afraid of her hating you but she doenst look like your type..end it and find someone that fits your puzzle piece (outgoing,and layed back) she sounds like she's been spoiled a little bit too much in her lifetime good luck.
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