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anonymous
writes:I went out with this guy for 8 years. He was very loving, but he split up with me. Days later he was with someone else. They've been together about 18 months now. I'm over it although I still care for him as a person. Thing is, I am moving on, and I would like him to move the stuff out my house but every time I mention it he ignores me or gets pissed at me. Then he sends me really friendly messages asking me how I'm doing. I just want to know what it means. I would be inclined to think it means nothing but at certain points over the last 18 months he has admitted he loves me, missed me, not over me...although not in the last 4 months or so. I know he cares for his girlfriend, but I feel there relationship is very differnet to ours. We were very stable, rarely argued and were ready to build our lives together. When he is with his new gf, she's always moaning, looks miserable, and always demands hs attention. Is there a part of him that regrets? Maybe he still cares? What do you think?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (4 August 2010):
 Do u want this guy back? All this girl is the rebound chick, and im afraid she knows it..Even though he broke it off, and he hasnt done the closure part by removing his belongings from ur house he still has a hold on u. This guy is not completely over u..Now if u want to move on entirely, i would box up his belongings and dump them on his porch. Then he'll be a lil angry but he'll get the message its time to move on and go ur separate ways
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