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writes:i'm in love with my friend, that i meet year 2007, but before we dont have any afair, coz we only friends, and i got broke up that time, but he likes me a lot, and last year 2010 we meet again in the phillippines, i never thought that i will fall in love with him, same he is, we spent 2 weeks together, but the problem is, he tells to me the truth that he have girlfriend in the usa, and they are over 10 years already, but him and her girlfriend have a big recital coz he dont want to make a baby, but his girlfriend want to have, so he ask me if what if he will broke up with him, i will accept him, if he will single? he dont give me false hope, and when he comeback in the usa, he told me they got broke up,and he ask me that if we can have try to have future with him, we emailing back and forth, coz i said yes we can, i love him,now, but even i love him, i got lost my interest to him, in many many matters, first he always wait me, even in the phillipines not only ones hour, but sometimes it takes 7 hours waiting for him, he do it not only ones but many many times, same here in the internet, i am the one who make adjustment to chat with him even the time its time for me for sleeping, but he always wait me again for many many hours while me i always do lots of effort, to spent time with him so that we could talk, and he is tightwad person, and sometimes he is not appropriate, and he dont call me in the phone, here coz i work now abroad somewhere in asia, but when he have a relatiosnhip before he called his girlfriend he make a way, he call me only ones, and he tell me they got broke up already.but i am here now 4 monts in abroad but he never called, i want to tell him my problem to him, that he is tightwad person, when we live together in the phillipines in 2 weeks, but i doubting if i need to tell him that? i really want to leave him now and stop emailed me, but i want to tell him all the reason why, pls give me some advice if i need to tell him whats the matter. so that its fair enough in his part???pls
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reader, VikkiDec1  +, writes (24 August 2010):
 It's always better to be totally honest and tell him everything thats on your mind. He will appreciate when your not afraid to speak your mind.
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