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anonymous
writes:Hey people! I feel ashamed, its ridiculous but yes, i have a crush on my girl's bf! The worst thing is that he knows it and he always turns me on deliberately. He says that he loves his girlfriend and thats true but he also tells me that he wants to kiss me and touch me and make love to me etc.How can i resist him! i know something will happen sooner or later and who knows maybe she'll find out that something is going on between us! I don't want to loose her nor him, what should i do?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (4 August 2010):
 Well when I was ur age, I valued my friendships..Chicks before dicks! Your friend's boyfriend is a player. Dont think for a second if he ditches her and goes for you he'll turn around and do the same thing to you. Because he will! Been there at ypur age but only the girl was my arch enemy. So different story there. Another thing you have to consider is if you decide to go with him then you risk being the "other girl" meaning he's not breaking up with your friend but also screwing u on the side..that crap happens when your older too only then theyre called home wreckers. And then you'll be a bad friend and no one wants to be friends with that. Bottom line if you value ur friendship you wont try to steal him and tell your friend what a piece of crap she's dating!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2010): Have you ever been cheated on? If you have then shame on you for concidering this, you should be kicking his backside to the curb, not playing his games. Im sorry but whatever happened to protecting your friend. this guy is obviously a player, but you dont sound much better. If he ditches her for you, then whats to say that he's not gonna run off with someone else 2weeks later, then you'll have nobody to cry to coz your best mates not even gonna want to look at you, and trust me girls hate this sort of thing, if/when all your mutual friends found out they prob aint gonna b too keen to spend time with a boyfriend stealer.Think very carefully
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reader, Romani +, writes (3 August 2010):
your willing to lose your best friend over a sleazy crush?! Do yourself a favor and forget him! If you were a real friend you would tell her that her boyfriend is dishonest with her! If you want to disgrace yourself and lose your friend over a dishonest weasel than "act " on it. Bu if you were a real woman you would tell ur friend the truth- if ur not brave enough than STAY AWAY!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2010): I agree with Person12345...this guy is a cheater, not someone who has found his true love...if there is such a thing.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (3 August 2010):
 I'd just avoid all contact with him, especially if you're alone. It's not worth throwing away your friendship over this. Plus, if he's willing to cheat on the girl he loves for you, what happens if he loves you but finds someone else he finds attractive? This doesn't sound like a case of he's stuck in a relationship and found his true love, it sounds more like a serial cheater finding his next mark.
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reader, Duckyhelp  +, writes (3 August 2010):
 Tell your friend what hes been saying, she deserves to know what a dick he is. She will be devasted but she will be hurt in the long run if she isnt told
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2010): to me its personaly not worth loosing your friend over it will only ruining your friendship at the end if u do something with him then u will regret the whole thing ever happen especially if u do something with him & afther its all done & over with he doesnt pay you no attention nomore so dnt give him the satifaction he wants
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reader, natmarie +, writes (3 August 2010):
 Do nothing if you can. You will regret losing your best friend to that idiot one day.. mark my words!! Good luck with your resisitance.. xx
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (3 August 2010):
 DO NOT act on this at all. he knows what he's doing. he's not gonna BE with you.
and why would you have a crush an such a disrespectful person. he's saying to your face that "Hey I love my girl but i wanna get wit you". tell your friend what he's been saying and if she believes you then great. if she doesn't then great. just get out of that situation it sounds like a ticking time bomb.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2010): Lose him - you don't want to be with somebody who would do this to you?! Ignore his advances and tell him you value your friendship.
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reader, Angelicc +, writes (3 August 2010):
 The guy isnt worth you time at all. This will only ruin your friendship if you act on it. He clearly doesnt care for either of you if he's willing to put you in the situation.
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