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*aylee kristen
writes:Is it bad if it pisses me off that my boyfriend has kids and still has to see his ex? I'm not jelous and I do trust him I just don't trust her and I really don't like her.
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reader, jaylee kristen +, writes (3 August 2010):
jaylee kristen is verified as being by the original poster of the question I understand...thank you.
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reader, bitterblue  +, writes (3 August 2010):
 The eternal rivalry between ex and current girlfriend. You will need to be civil with this woman for the sake of the boyfriend and the children. Understand the situation cannot change, he has to visit and spend time with the little ones. "I trust him, but I don't trust her" - we hear this often, and it's just an excuse for your jealousy. Not everyone can handle this type of situation and you should decide if you can - then you will naturally support your boyfriend through this and when / if the time comes for the kids to be presented to you, act friendly and accept they are an extended part of him, they come in a package. In conclusion: determine if you can accept the situation and if you do, learn where the jealousy if coming from and how to control it, without hurting the relationship.
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