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writes:I want to leave him but I am scared. When I tried to split up with him and ask him to move out, he said that he would chuck me out and take my son from me. I dont want to lose my son and I dont want to move out but he wont go. He has been emotionally blackmailing me about where will he go, he will lose everything, what about my son, what he is going to say to my son etc.. I never pushed it as he has quite a temper on him and I didnt know how he would react. After a few days, he has assumed that everything is back to normal and all of a sudden we are back together and trying for a baby. I am too scared to bring the subject up again as I dont know how he will react. I just want him to leave but he is making this hard for me. I dont have the courage to tell him how he is controlling me and also emotionally abusing me into going along with him. I have no one I can turn to and also nowhere else to go. We are also joint tentants so I can not chuck him out. I need help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2010): Definitely don't have another baby with him! And I agree that you need to go to the police, or a family member or friend. They will know what to do to get you out of this.
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reader, *julia*  +, writes (23 August 2010):
I think that u should go to the police, too. My mom did that to my dad and she got a restraining order on him. If you want him away from your son, and if you are scared you should deffinately turn to the police. That's what my mom did and that's what I would do. And I'm sorry for the situation you are in. It will be tough. But you and your son will pull through. Best of luck to you and your son.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2010): I'm sorry to hear about your situation. I think you need to go to the police. Be careful if you are really scared that he doesn't know about this or your posts here. Good luck.
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