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"just give me time to think about things" Is he going to dump me?

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Question - (22 August 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 August 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello,

I wonder if anyone can offer me a piece of advice, recently my boyfriend has been acting very strange, and today I recieved the text: "Just give me time to think about things. I've got a lot going on right now and just need to sort my life out." - I simply don't know what to do, does this mean he is going to dump me? We had such a perfect, happy relationship, I don't know what's suddenly happened?

Thank you for any advice.

G

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (22 August 2010):

To be honest, it's not a good sign. I can't tell you what happened, but something is causing him to doubt your relationship together. It may have nothing to do with you at all. It could be something else that is causing him to feel this way. But he clearly is confused at the moment, and needs to think about his life.

I'm afraid that means you need to sit back and let him think, no matter how hard you find it. You must now give him time. He will make a decision, and when he does you will both be able to move forward.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010):

Is your bf studying or working? Everyone needs some time to themself, maybe he might be in a tough situation, try to understand his situation. GIve him some time, maybe 1 week, msg him often to see how things are going. Ask him what is his problem. Do u guy fight alot? if yes try to sort out problems. Maybe he does have alot of problems, try not to thing of the negative part. im sure he will not dump u honey, he might be stress. Im sure he will come back tou and explain things out, meanwhile make urself busy and try not to thing too much. Take care :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010):

Is your bf studying or working? Everyone needs some time to themself, maybe he might be in a tough situation, try to understand his situation. GIve him some time, maybe 1 week, msg him often to see how things are going. Ask him what is his problem. Do u guy fight alot? if yes try to sort out problems. Maybe he does have alot of problems, try not to thing of the negative part. im sure he will not dump u honey, he might be stress. Im sure he will come back tou and explain things out, meanwhile make urself busy and try not to thing too much. Take care :)

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