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writes:Helloi know this girl online and we ve been friends for like 5 years and we know like almost everything about eachother. 2 years ago we confessed to eachother that we had feelings and we got together but we still havent met ( we re plannin to meet in october since we live in 2 different countries ). the problem is i know her past and its actually haunting me. she was naughty when she was younger and did have guys and stuff..they just kissed but with some of them she got really intimate like kissing all over in bed and doing other stuff like lickin chocolate from her body.., even though my past is way more than that since i ve slept with girls and everything..but still the idea that my LDR girlfriend bein so intimate with other guys freaks me out and i dont know how to get over this and i dont wanna finish this relationship even tho its long distance one but i really love her and so does she, but i keep get upset about this and i make her feel so bad about her self . im not sure if i just feel like this since i never actually did anything with her yet but i really i dont know what to do to get over this!!! i need your opinion guysPS : shes a virgin since she never had sex beforethanks in advace
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (23 August 2010):
 Whether you genuinely have feelings for her or not, your attitude smacks of hypocrisy. Nonetheless, since you haven't actually started a relationship, if these things actually bother you, you should re-valuate whether you want to be with her or not, shouldn't you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010): dont act so stupid..everyone makes mistakes in life and you yourself have.Stop making her feel bad about her past.itwas done before you n if you still have a problem you should part ways..you cannot go on like this.If you love her you shd stop wprrying abt all these thngs n make her happy
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (22 August 2010):
 You don't love her. You CAN'T because it's a long distance relationship and it STARTED that way. How can you know that you love her if you've never actually met her in person? Trust me, you can't. Don't let her past haunt you if she's still a virgin, up till now, all the stuff she's done sounds like the equivalent of french kissing a friend, it's not that a big deal, you wouldn't be haunted by that now would you?
I hope that helps.
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