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writes:If a man seems really messed up and confused and dumps you cause he has had a lot of stress pile up on him at once is it best to give him his freedom and hope he still wants you when he gets his head together? Reply to this Question
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reader, person12345  +, writes (28 August 2010):
 I can't say if it's a good sign that he'll take you back, but you should keep giving him his space. If/when he's ready you'll know.
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reader, jpuddledub +, writes (27 August 2010):
jpuddledub is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your help everyone, I left it a month then sent him a quick text to check that he is ok, his response was that things were 'still messy but simplifying slowly' and thanks for giving him his space, positive sign??
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reader, jpuddledub +, writes (26 August 2010):
jpuddledub is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your help everyone, I left it a month then sent him a quick text to check that he is ok, his response was that things were 'still messy but simplifying slowly' and thanks for giving him his space, positive sign??
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reader, spiderweb  +, writes (22 August 2010):
 You don't have a choice in this thing. He's dumped you, so let him go and with any luck, if he ever does want you back again, you'll be in the kind of place where you don't want him with all his problems and confusions. Good luck.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (22 August 2010):
Yes. He may have been stressed, he may have been totally confused, but he probably has his reasons for wanting to break it off. There's absolutely only one thing you can do, and that is to give him his space. If you want to get back together again, you've got to give him his space or he will think you're clingy/smothering.
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reader, Curlycarlyx3 +, writes (22 August 2010):
This sounds just like the reason my bf broke up with me. I would say if ou really love him wait for him but my bf said the same and is now with another girl.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (22 August 2010):
 It depends on what he's like. No one here knows for sure what your boyfriend is like so we can't give you an entirely accurate answer.
If he actually dumped you because he was stressed then he was right to because your relationship would never work well with stress.
Anyway, depending on how strongly you feel about this guy, I'd wait and see. Life often looks messy, sometimes with patience, your vision clears.
I hope that helps.
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