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*ohnnybahama
writes:Went on a date tonight and it went really well. We just got some dinner and talked for a bit. Nothing too serious. She was talkative and seemed interested. We actually laughed quite a bit. She is quite the flirter with others so i kind of take that with a grain of salt. I paid for dinner, she objected at first but finally relented. When we were leaving she insisted that next time she pay. I said I'd have to think about it. Just wondering if if I should ask her out again and if so when should I ask?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (26 August 2010):
 Standing someone up is just plain rude, it's not that hard to make a phone call and make some excuse to cancel the date. That would've been greatly appreciated in your case. I'm sorry that happened to you, it's a crap thing for someone to do. She was obviously too scared to cancel the date and tell you how she really felt. Bottom line when someone stands you up there is no excuse unless they died (saw that on a Sex in the City episode). What it means is she's just not that into you. Guess what? That's her problem and you're better off without her inconsiderate self.
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reader, johnnybahama +, writes (26 August 2010):
johnnybahama is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo I asked her out on Monday for a 2nd date and she says yes. We make plans for lunch on Wednesday and then today rolls around and she doesn't come. What are the rules and etiquette on being stood up? What should I do? A little confused.
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (22 August 2010):
 It's good that your date went so well!
Maybe wait until the afternoon of the next day or something. Call her and say you had a great time last night and you'd like to meet up again. See when's good for her and maybe pick something as well as dinner, like a movie?
If you ask her out sooner, she knows you're interested, if you wait too long, like a week, and try to play it cool she'll probably get the wrong idea (that you're not interested). You don't have to set up the date for soon, just call her pretty soon and maybe organise one for a week's time or something.
Good luck!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (22 August 2010):
In girl world, if you don't call us for the second date within 3 days that means your not interested. So you have 3 days starting the day after your date. Call and don't text, it makes it that much more personal.
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