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writes: I'm fourteen and my bf and I have been going out for two months but somehow I find myself almost madly in love with him I've met him in person but we've never been alone..my friend that hooked us up always comes.. I know she us jealous but I don't want her to steal him... also we talked on oovoo and skype and he texts me every day. he acts like he likes me when we are talking bc he puts hearts and tells me I'm pretty and stuff but he talks to my friend just as much as me.I don't want to get in an arguement with my friends over a boy but I like him a lottt and really want us to work. BADLY.Pleasee help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everyone!!! I'll tlk to her(:
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010): just arange to meet him without ur friend, invite him over or make a date ect. Obviously tell someone where u are, but just not ur friend, if he's YOUR boyfriend then y does she have to b there all the time? Who made that rule?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (22 August 2010):
Well, that's great she hooked you guys up but now she needs to stop being the third wheel. I'm sure her and this guy are friends so there's nothing you can do about that. I don't think she's jealous or likes him because why would she take the time to hook you guys up? Just have a chat with her on the phone next time telling her that you want to separate time with her and your boyfriend. You still want to have times where it's just girls then, boyfriend time, you don't make her the third wheel (even though she's a voluntarily one). If she's any kind of bestie she'll understand, just don't ignore your friend for your boyfriend that's a big mistake girls often make.
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reader, *julia* +, writes (22 August 2010):
I think that you should talk to them both and work it out. If she doesn't understand then she might not be a good friend. Friends support eachother and if you tell her how you feel, she might understand. And I would talk to your boyfriend and work it out and if he loves you as much as you love him, then he should feel the same way as you do and want to spend more time together alone. Hope it works out for you : )
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