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26-29,
*urt4life
writes:I am back here after a few years, those years had helped me open my eyes wide open, and understand that you cant force somebody to love you, or respect you if they don't want to, either make then change their actions... I am very happy now my son is 2 1/2 years, i don't miss my ex anymore, i don't hate him,he always treated me like "shit" any women from the street was better than me, i was just the young girl who offered myself to him, five years of my life wasted in all posible ways, i am now 25, and he is 45, i wish him the best, hopefully one day he will learn that you never leave the one that loves you, for just anybody... I thought i was never going to stop suffering, to feel hurt by his words by his distance, but thanks to god my pain his over, as for now i will focus in improving my life and continue my school, One day I might also find a man who will love me, for who i am and see in me more than just SEX. Sometimes i do get sad to not have a special person by my side to keep me warm, to make me feel loved... sometimes i feel very lonely, but knowing that from a nightmare I had such a blessing, "MY SON" i feel complete.....My question is... what does it take to be happy and successful in life?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (22 August 2010):
 It varies from person to person but I would say as long as your doing things that make you happy, achieving goals and dreams then you are successful. Some go to college and be a doctor, scientist, school teacher, nurse etc..having children, finding the "one", getting your master's, writing a best-selling novel, potty training your child, being a parent..the options are endless. The thing is you don't need a man to make you happy, your the only who can make you happy a man is just a bonus. As long as your following your dreams, goals and not losing sight of what's important then you are already successful!
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