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writes:I have no idea what to do. For about 3 months now, a girl with a girlfriend has been cheating with me. She didn't leave her girlfriend for me as her friends would completely cast her out. Also, we were both soon to leave home for university, and she'd agreed with her girlfriend to split at that time, after which we'd planned for me to visit her and see what happened.However, she hasn't made the grades for her best uni, and is being sent to one 400 miles away, rather than 150. Before that, I was dead set on asking her for something long term, but it keeps dawning on me that asking a taken girl, who's cheating with me, and moving 400 miles away, for a long term relationship is completely ridiculous.On the other hand, from talks we had before, I know we've been wanting to be together about a year now (and began cheating when we couldn't hold back anymore). I think I've established that she's not just using me, and I love her.Should I stick to my guns, be brave and ask her to be with me, however stupid the circumstances, or with great difficulty and regret, abandon the whole thing?
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reader, Odds  +, writes (22 August 2010):
 Well, she cheated on her girlfriend to be with you... do you really think you're so special inher mind that she won't cheat on you later? Especially if she's 150 or 400 miles away?
Say your fond farewells and find someone better, preferably someone single.
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