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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years, I'm in my twenties and he's a year younger than me(pretty much more mature than me) we have seen each other every day since we first started going out (we hang out from 2 in the afternoon till 9 in the night, monday-friday) and talk on the phone every day from 9:50 pm to 10:30 pm, and we still see each other every day and talk every day for those hours and days. We love spending every hour and day together, we do tend to fight for small things but that's mostly solved quicky but my concern is... is this healthy, I know for sure he's the one, we both know we're going to get married and be together forever but families and friends say we see each other too much and it is annoying to see us everywhere we go together. So is it a problem, do we need time off?? Etc, we do plan to move in together soon, but I'm afraid during that time we move in and future ahead we might grow apart, pleaseee help!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (23 August 2010):
 the only problem with this is if something bad happens,then u will be left with no social life.invest in some friendships too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010): I personally don't think you can spend too much time with someone if they're "the one". After all, married couples seem to spend all their time together except for when they're at work.
As an example my boyfriend and I have been together for a year, we do the same course at uni, have the same circle of friends and spend almost every evening together. We do do some things apart so we have something to talk about, but neither of us feels as though the other is crowding them out.
Overall only YOU can decide if you're spending too much time together, if you feel like you need space you probably are, but if you're happy and comfortable with the amount of time you spend together then who does anyone else think they are to tell you otherwise?
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