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writes:My boyfriend is very sweet and a good guy and he has introduced me to his friends but I have not. We had a discussion recently where he was pouring out his mind, saying he puts in more effort, that I have never even introduced or taken him along with my friends I claim I go out with sometimes. The truth is I might hang out with a few people but I really do not have friends and my very close friend is not in the same city with me. Also majority of my friends are guys which is also worse. How am i supposed to tell him I don't have any friend? I'm so sad and don't know what to tell him. Please people help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010): I am sorry you are feeling so worried and upset about this. I think you should just tell him what you have said here, that although you know a few people you don't really have any friends. You could tell him that the only reason you claimed to go out with friends sometimes was because you was worried what he would think if he knew you had no friends. I can't see how he would take that in a bad way, I don't think this should have any impact on the relationship at all. Just be honest with him, and he should understand.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (22 August 2010):
 You got friends! I got friends in a couple of diff states whom I need to go visit. So what if most of them are guys, opposite sex is easier to get along with plus I think of them all as the brotherly type. In fact both of my best friends are dudes. Its become more socially acceptable in our modern times. Don't tell him you don't have friends, because that would be a lie. Introduce him to your guy friends, he'll feel better about them once he gets to meet them. My dear don't fret just relax and show him ur friends and who knows maybe he'll become good friends with your guy friends..
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