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writes: I have a guy friend, well i say "friend" but i'm not really sure if he deserves to be one, really. We used to be FWB (i know bad idea) anyway he's a real womaniser, i knew this to begin with so i guess i shouldn't really be suprised. The thing is, at one point i really started to like him a lot but he got a girlfriend which if i'm honest, killed me inside but i just got on with it and tried to keep my distance asi didn't want to hear about him being with her.So, after he'd been going out with her for a few months, out of the blue he texts me, basically wanting me for sex again.This hurt me as, firstly he has a girlfriend and secondly he obviously has no respect for me if he thinks i'm going to sleep with him while he's with her. So, my question is, how do i move on from this guy? I'm finding it near impossible, i've tried no contact, which works for a while, but we are friends on facebook and he also has my number so we usually end up talking at some point. I really like him but i know it's never going to happen, so i just want to move on but don't know how. I know i shouldn't like him as he's a cheat and a user but any help would be appreciated. Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think i have realised he won't change that's why i won't to move on. I agree that he doesn't want to be "caught" but why commit to having a girlfriend if you don't want to be tied down? Why not just stay single and sleep with as many girls as you like?
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