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writes:Hi, Im looking for advice on how to get my ex back. we were together nearly three years,never had a fight always on got on well, i thought id be with him forever.... we were having a long distance relationship for a while because i was studying abroad and one day i couldnt do it anymore i missed him too much.another reason was he never told me he loved me, he said he felt he was too young to know and didnt want to say it unless he was certain which is understandable.after we broke up we were with each other a few times but it got too hard then so we had to stop, nearly a year and a half on were still in contact. i gave him an ultimatum and asked would he give things another go or will i move on because it was always left that we might got back together when i returned from uni but he said to leave it that its over to move on. i was devastated..... i know i hurt him when i broke with him but i have been hurt too the last year because i was doing all the chasing.... we kissed a few weeks ago and im convinced he still has feelings for me but he is stubborn and will never talk about his feelings. i wish i knew a way to get him back..... i would do anything, please help
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (24 August 2010):
 People says those 3 words at different times in the relationship, some sooner than others, others are late bloomers..How old is he? I mean if he doesn't know after 3 years then come on. If you did all the chasing and there was very little effort on his part then the relationship is dead, there's no reviving it. He's supposed to chase you. Friends didn't work and you gave him the ultimatum and that backfired too. Sorry but there's no more tricks left in the bag, he said no, you've been persistent with and still no. My advice, stop chasing after your ex instead let it go and cut off contact with him. If it's ment to be then he'll come back begging for you.
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