A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:ok, this is going to be long but please read and answer i need help! im 17 now but my mom started dating her current bf when i was 12. for about the first year, all was well and we got along fine. in summer my moms bf (lets call him john) would pick me up and take us to swim at the beach and we would have fun.. i always had very dry skin and he would rub cream on my back for me, but he would slowly start to go closer and closer to my buttocks and eventually rub there as well. As time went on he would insist that i kiss him hello and goodbye on the lips. it would always be slightely longer than is normal and his hugs would always be as if he is feeling me up.. then it got worse. whenever i was lying on my bed reading a book he would come in and rub along my thighs with on arm and my lower back with the other while he would kiss me all over my face and neck. i would tell him no and try to push him away but i was never strong enough. after a while it progressed to him feeling up my breasts but still over my clothes. then he started asking me for sexual favours. i always said no and then he would continue to ask and beg and say come on, only for 10minutes.. then whenever i did something wrong, he would say that he should make me give him a blow job.. i would lock myself in the bathroom whenever he said something like this. i never let him do any of those things to me, but he continues to rub along the insides of my thighs and feel my boobs up. this still happens to this day and i am extremely nervous around him even though its probably stupid of me to be scared of him but i cant help it. so i guess my question is, this isnt molestation right? but if it isnt then what is it? or am i just over reacting? thank you for reading and please reply and help me!
View related questions:
blow-job, boobs, breasts Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (1 September 2010):
 It's worse than you are leading yourself to believe. Tell someone NOW. You cannot allow him to continue doing this to you.
Forget about hurting your mother. Are you actually about to let your mother be with someone with such a dark and secretive side to him? Call the police the next time he does it. He threatens you and he touches you when you've clearly shown a discomfort to him, he needs to be locked away.
I hope that helps.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010): Its not your fault at all. You wont hurt your mom by telling her, you're only hurting yourself. Please you need to tell someone. There are other girls just like you that this is happening to, you need to stand up and give others hope, and you'll be helping yourself. Dont let that man touch you. Its your body and you need to use your mind to protect it. Please tell someone
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni cant and wont tell my mom. im not going to hurt her like that.. and besides, its not as if its hectic bad, right? plus im pretty sure that its anyway my own fault..
...............................
A
male
reader, Cerberus_Raphael +, writes (22 August 2010):
You are definitely NOT overreacting, I'd say you are UNDER reacting. Why haven't you told your mother about what he's been doing? This is wrong! Get him as far away from you as possible, get a restraining order filed against him. Your mother needs to know that her current boyfriend is doing this, he's a pedophile and he needs to go to jail for this! Good luck.
I hope that helps.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010): Yhis is very serious, it is harrassment, and you're not overreacting. You should do something about it. Have you tried talking to your mother about this? Does she know? Would she do something about if she did? I did some researching for you and found this website:
http://www.molestation.in/
Hopefully this website will answer most of your questions. I wish you the best of luck and hope this stops because it is a very horrible situation to be in.:]
...............................
A
female
reader, Fefi  +, writes (22 August 2010):
 omigod you need to tell your mum right now, if she says that you are going crazy then try and film it or find proof of evidence. if that doesnt work out then i consider u call police 4 him to do lie detector.
good luk and tell me how it goes :(
...............................
|
