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writes:My bf and I broke up last week, because we were bickering too much. I wanted to work it out and he didnt so he said he was done, i have this feeling though that hes just taking what he thinks is the easy way out and he will realize it later on that he was wrong. hes very stubborn and he always takes awhile to figure things out, i want to help him figure it out though to make him feel better. he did this last year and he came back a month later. we have been together for 2 years and I wish i could prove to him that its going to change for the better. I talked to him the other day and it seemed like it was too early to talk so i said sorry for asking how he was. i havent talked to him since and i truly miss him like crazy and i dont feel like moving on cuz hes the only one i want so please just help me out here. I want to show him that we will be better this time but idk how i can do that.Do guys take awhile to realize what they lost?Will he come back?I know im not going to sit and wait and not go out and meet people, because i am.I just want him though and I need advice from the guys that could help me find a way to fix this and make him realize what we had was great and we can stop the bickering problem.Id seriously do anything to get this guy back!
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (22 August 2010):
 Did you - or someone like you - post about this same issue a week or so ago? sounds awfully familiar.
Anyway, I'll tell you what I told the other poster: namely, YOU may think he's making a mistake and want to convince him the bickering (I'm sure you're the same person, BTW!) can be stopped, but HE clearly does not agree and just wants (has) to end(ed) it.
Yes, I recall you telling us this happened last year and you sent numerous emails, texts, phone messages and he did come back - only to reject you once more, now.
Whether you miss him, and feel he's the only one for you (there's plenty more fish in the sea, as the saying goes, you know. He's hardly the only guy on the planet) means nothing in his book.
So no, he's not going to suddenly decide he wants to resume the relationship, and YOU, young lady, need to accept and respect his right to say "no." As I pointed out before, you are certainly entitled to discuss it with him, and state your case - which you have already done - and if he chooses not to play along with it, for your own peace of mind you have no choice BUT to accept it.
Let it go!
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