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writes:[OP original title]Guys i dont know what to do...my girlfriend and I soon will be starting to have sex...but Im virgin and never had or made oral sex...well she told me she has received and made oral sex to guys, altough she has never been penetrated, BUT i feel scared..freaked..with a little unconfort and some "that was gross"....I remember her kisses from 2 days ago and I freak out now thinking of that tongue and where it has been...I dont want lo leave her..she's such a good woman...please HELP!!! im desperate!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010): You have to decide what you really want, do you want sex with her or not? No one can make the decision for you, it's you're body. You don't want to have any regrets.
But just remember that you're only 16-17 and there's plenty of time for sex. You need to make doubly sure this girl is worth losing your virginity over before you do anything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010): First I would say you need to get over the whole being grossed out thing. By the time you are in your 20's most all girls will have had their mouths on someone else.
Secondly, and this is just my opinion, if you are both virgins then you should take it slow. Try other things first. Don't rush the sex... Once you do it you can never get your virginity back. Maybe you two should try oral together when you get hot and heavy and then when you think of her mouth somewhere it will be on you!
Are you at all worried about giving her oral or just what you are receiving?
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reader, ThatGuy101  +, writes (22 August 2010):
Bro, all of us guys have been there! Its the scariest battle you will face in your life, dont let that stop you though! Im not telling you to go get it on by any means because you are still young kid, just remember the oops factor from this-its 18 years of uh oh lol. But if your still gonna tackle this beast calm down. Your new to the game and shes had some playing time in the field, dont get grossed out about it. The whole oral sex event might be awkward at first but its not bad at all. If shes done it before your golden, and as for you just ask her to help you along, you have to learn what she likes and once you get that playbook its all homeruns from there! The actual act of sex is the same way, let it take its course and learn from one another, let her know that its your first time dont ever be embarassed about that, its every guys first time at one point or another. If it still freaks you out just explain to her to that your not ready, if shes really the girl for you shell understand and wait for you. Again been there done that. Keep your head up and remember to wrap up, always be smart if you do decide to take it to that level.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010): Don't think about it to much just let it happen. If you plan it out to much it will be awkward, but if you just let things flow it will go much better. Everyone has a first time, and you will never know how it goes until you try!
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