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writes:ok so like this girl and told her so and she said she only liked me as a friend so i guess the question is what now? i mean i've "come to terms" with her decision i can't help so again, what now? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010): You're not the first to be in this scenario, nor will you be the last. But don't forget, everyone has their chance to find love and there may be someone falling for you right now. Life goes on, the earth doesn't stop revolving even when you feel it should. Good luck!
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reader, ThatGuy101 +, writes (22 August 2010):
You gotta take this with a grain of salt bro. Right now it may seem like the world hates you, trust me been there done that. Keep your friendship for what its worth, but just remember if she doesnt like you like that theres tons of girls in this world. Youve probably heard that more times that you care for but its the truth. Ive had plenty of girls who i would have done anything to be with, but i wasnt what they were looking for. You will eventually come across a girl who makes your jaw drop, sweat like you just ran a marathon and makes your pants feel way to small lol. Your young kid, dont let this get you down! You got this!
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (22 August 2010):
 God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.
I'm not a religious person per se, but this speaks volumes of truth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010): she might like you but she might not want to lose you as a friend or she might not want a boyfriend right now she might come around
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (22 August 2010):
 respect her decision. thats all you can do. You can either decide to stick around hoping she'll change her mind, or you can open your heart to other girls. good luck.
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reader, Alwayswondering +, writes (22 August 2010):
I've been in this situation too often. You say your age is 13-15. You are really young. Rejection is apart of life, unfortunately. It's always the guy who has to ask the girl out (or very rare the girl asks the guy out) and the girl is always on the "good side". That being, oh, well I don't feel the same way. Sorry. She doesn't usually feel bad for rejecting you. Or doesn't "hurt" emotionally. Meanwhile, the recipient feels like shit. Having liking this person for x amount of months, then realizing, her not feeling the same way for the whole time...
Which I always wonder why we guys get put into the friend's zone. Do we care too much? Too much of a friend? Would you rather date a guy who doesn't care about your personal issues until you start dating? It makes it seem like "Oh darn, I'm dating her, so now I have to care". I disagree with this so much. But, I'm 20 now, one girlfriend in my life, and a whole lot of rejection.
I'm not helping you, sorry. The best answer and mostly all the answers you will get, will be give it time, and you will get over her. It's true. I'm not bullshiting you. If you guys still remain in contact after this, then you will eventually see her as a friend. Good luck. Did I help at all? I kind of ranted on about miscellaneous things.
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