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writes:I've been dating my boyfriend for about 4 years now and plans for our wedding have been going much slower than I wud have wanted them to go. It has affected my attitude towards my boyfriend and he has noticed the change in me. I feel frustrated, tired and to make matters worse.. He has started to irritate me with his jokes. Not sure if I want to continue with the relationship or give myself a fresh clean beginning with someone else. I know I luv my boyfriend but not as strong as I used to. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010): So you're engaged and you want to leave him because he tells stupid jokes and the plans are going slow? I don't think this is a reason at all. Why don't you two sit down and talk about this whole thing. You love him, but you wanna leave him because of this small thing. Your next bf might irritate you with something else. Think about it. The choice is yours.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2010): Hmmmm, it's not clear from your post that you are actually engaged. Are you?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (22 August 2010):
 Plans for your wedding? Did I miss the part where you got engaged? Ok, if you are engaged don't expect him to help out with the wedding. That's not their thing and they don't know a thing about it. You're better off hiring a wedding planner, or your mother, mother-in-law, and bridesmaids helping you. Planning a wedding can be a nightmare I don't blame those bridezillas. Now, if you're just talking about a wedding then, of course he has to propose first. Don't pressure him just back off a little and it will happen when he's ready. The jokes do seem annoying but then again it seems like his way of relax it's going to happen. Love doesn't fade it's always there in fact it becomes stronger over the years. I do need a little more info here.
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