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writes:Hi aunts,All the questions about penis size and female squirters got me wondering about another "size" related topic that many men obsess over...semen volume. But I wanted a womans take on it. Men are sometimes obsessed with producing a voluminous ejaculation. The reasons for this vary, but I would say at the top of the list is they want to "impress" a woman with a huge cumshot. Another is it feels good to spurt a lot, because it feels good to "release" semen. Hard spurts make the orgasm more intense. So ladies...DOES a large cumshot impress you in some way? If so, how? Does it indicate a more virile, potent man? Do you just like to know you have given him a poowerful orgasm? Some say it is primal needs for procreation in a woman to desire a man with a larger penis and semen volume. But on a purely sexual satisfaction level, do you get anything out of it? I can say I've never had a woman really go crazy when I've cum a lot. They may say later that it was a lot, but if anything, because it was annoying to have to clean more up. On the flip side, if your man cums more weakly (because he came already or whatever), does this dissapoint you or whatever?I know this is somewhat of a porn thing. Even women in porn don't seem to go crazy for big cummers, even though there is a definite niche for it in porn (bukkake, Peter North, etc). Many male enhancement drugs and vitamins also try to increase volume...so there has to be some basis for all this...
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (11 August 2010):
 if i'm going down on him i like a lot of it... but not really a topic of conversation for any female. we don't even notice it a lot of the time.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (10 August 2010):
 Nope, never really ever paid attention to it. It's more a guy thing, I think. Sorry, it's just not a topic that we women discuss, or honestly particularly care about. If you're happy, we're happy, but I can pretty well assure you that most of us simply don't pay any attention to the size of the emission.
You have to remember that porn as a rule is designed to sell to men. Men are the consumers and the creators of porn, for the most part. It's all to do with the male psyche. So don't take it as a learning manual for understanding women or their sexuality, just a word of caution for you there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2010): If only you knew the truth. Because this is one thing I had never even thought of someone stressing about! Nooooo. Like we tell you guys every single day: YOU are the shallow ones! We don't give a second's thought about penis size or amount of semen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2010): No, the more there is the more annoying and disgusting I find it.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (10 August 2010):
 Gross!!! I couldn't care less about volume. All that means is that the guy was pent up and hadn't gotten any before that moment for a little longer than normal.
Smelly, sticky, gooey, gross, and it can't go away fast enough is how I feel about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2010): I enjoy it when my boyfriend comes a lot when I go down on him, but it is only because I enjoy knowing that HE really enjoyed and that it was especially pleasurable for him.
But admittedly its either a whole lot more to swallow or a whole lot more to clean up. It would be cool if there was a less messy way of his body showing me how awesome I am. LOL
It doesn't make me see him as more or less of a man.
Conclusion: I am happy if he is happy, but I would be happier if he was super happy with less mess.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2010): No I don't care in the least. If there was none I'd think he was faking, but it's mostly just a big ol' mess. And a stinky one at that.
"I know this is somewhat of a porn thing. Even women in porn don't seem to go crazy for big cummers, even though there is a definite niche for it in porn (bukkake, Peter North, etc)."
That's because porn women aren't paid to act, they're paid to have sex and they don't much care for being slathered in 10 guys semen. Or any semen. Dig? (by the way, bukkake is generally considered in that category of messed up) The reason you see so many titles referring to a "huge load" or whatever and a ton of cum is to please the men watching. Not the women. As you said, it feels better, therefore watching it happen to someone else you're thinking, "holy crap that must feel amazing!" as I imagine you're imagining being that guy. Nothing to do with women whatsoever.
This is actually why the penis enlargement market advertises this. But really, when do you mostly ejaculate a TON and have that great cleaned out feeling? It's after not ejaculating for awhile rather than, well whatever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2010): Yeah, when my man climaxes and there's a lot of semen I'm intrigued, wondering if it felt better for him. So I ask, "Was that a really good one?" and usually the answer is yes.
But I'm intrigued to learn about how he felt and how his body works (he's the one who originally told me that releasing semen feels good), not turned on. So personally, that's how I feel about it.
Him, on the other hand... he is VERY excited when he creates lots of semen. He likes to watch it in porn, too. There's something about it that makes him feel like it's proof that the woman made the man feel good, so his semen is a signal that she is attractive and sexy. It means a lot to him.
Because it means a lot to him, I've been learning to look at it as meaning something significant and sexy, but before him I really just saw it as more mess to clean up, like you said!
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reader, markhughes224  +, writes (10 August 2010):
cum on your favourite part/area of her body and lick it off, its always good when she's sensitive/ticklish in that area.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (10 August 2010):
 More cum more mess.. Sorry, don't impress me either.
I honestly think the volume show more how often you have sex then how great the sex was. I could be wrong though.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (10 August 2010):
 I can honestly say I don't care whatsoever about the volume of the cum. It has not even been up for discussion with my girl friends. We don't care. But I am glad that you guys can get some pleasure from it, then I guess it is good for something?
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