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Am I having mental orgasms?

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Question - (10 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 August 2010)
A age 26-29, anonymous writes:

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I am only 13 and I have never had sex, and dont plan on it until I find someone I am in love with. But of course, being a teenager I think about sex a lot. Whenever I fantasize, it feels like my uterus [or another female body part inside me] is kinda falling down, like its moving, but it feels good. Also it feels like my vagina moves too,and afterwards it feels like im wet but im not. I have never masturbated because im too scared, and also im afraid that when I do have sex one day it wont feel as good as im imagining it to be. So am I having orgasms just by thinking?

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A female reader, Oregongrl1 United States +, writes (11 August 2010):

You don't sound like a 13 year old to me? and if you are? do you feel comfortable enough talking to your mother about it. i always told my daughter she could come to me about anything and not be afraid to talk to me and she always has! i hope that you can share this w/ your mother because you might need to see a Doctor? please talk w/ your mother and i know she will listen to you!

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (11 August 2010):

person12345 agony auntDoesn't sound like an orgasm at all. It sounds like you're just becoming aroused. Your cervix actually does move and your vagina does elongate when you become aroused. Why on earth are you scared of masturbating??? They're your own body and they're there for touching and playing with. Are you scared to rub your nose? Masturbation is one of the most natural (and fun) things the human body can do. Everyone does it and it's so healthy. It will definitely improve your enjoyment of sex later on down the line (and improve your mood). I highly recommend you start touching yourself. Get and the tub and explore what feels good. Keep imagining whatever is you're imagining while you touch yourself. If you can learn what feels good before you start having sex, the whole experience will be waaay smoother and more fun. If you like the way fantasizing makes your body feel, I guarantee you'll love the way masturbating and orgasms make it feel. Go for it!

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