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writes:im 17 and very mature for my age, last year i was in a relationship for about 2 months with a fella who was 21 at that time. we broke up as he got back with his ex girlfriend and we havent spoke since to recently until about a month and a half ago we started chatting and then we ended up seeing eachother again ,not back in a relationship just seeing ,everything was goin great we were having fun and now he wont reply to my texts ,i dont dont know what ive done, and i dont want to get hurt again if he is goin to do the same thing as last time? any advice on what to do?
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reader, Gemmarrr +, writes (10 August 2010):
i understand you not wonting to lose him again but do you really wonna be with him and then he go and brake ur heart again. maybe the next time he calls or texts you, you ask him why he didnt text or phone back and see what he says but for now i would stop calling him and wate for him to come to you because if he really wonts to be with you he will call you and wont to sspend time with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question i know he has done it before but he has said what a huge mistake it was for him to do what he done and that he wants us to work this time and that hes glad that i will even give him the time of day never mind see him again and that hes goin to make it up to me .. i just dont understand why he wont reply to y texts or cals .what do yours think the best answer is i dont want to lose him all over again :(
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (10 August 2010):
 If a guy dropped me for an ex, I wouldn't give him the time of day after that. Once bitten, twice shy. The fact that you gave him a second chance and he's ignoring you now? Forget it. He's not worth your time.
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reader, fishy fish +, writes (10 August 2010):
Well he's done it before and doing it again. If you're sure you haven't hurt this guy in any shape or form then it must be his old habit surfacing again, perhaps his girlfriend knew about it and wasn't happy or maybe decided to stay away cause he felt ur getting attached again which you are! on both cases the guy doesn't respect you enough or treat you right, next time he calls let him know very politely and firmly what you think of all this and cut your relation or friendship with him please . he's only bad news.
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reader, Gemmarrr +, writes (10 August 2010):
in my eyes you seem like a lovely person and you deserve better i wouldnt let him do this again because hes just going to hurt you from what i can see, maybe have a chat with him and say what you feel.
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