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female
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36-40,
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writes:Hi. I'm not sure if my friend is trying to set me up with this guy or not, lol, although she said she isnt, and i'm not sure how to respond to this email she sent to me today. She said " I will let you know about going to the cinema, i am seeing my boyfriend at the weekend and not sure if i am going this friday or saturday ( i said i could meet her and this guy on friday ) , but ( this guy's name ) keeps asking me about you and would love to go the cinema with you, (then she wrote his email address ) , not trying to set you up lol, just thought you could chat to him lol ".I'd like to email him, but i'm not sure what to say. I'm also wondering why he keeps asking about me, as we haven't met yet. We have mentioned going to the cinema as the three of us for a while now, but we havent been yet. Even if she was trying to set me up, she would probably say she wasn't because she would feel embarrassed saying she is, or maybe she, and this guy, just want to go with the flow, which i do too, as i dont even know what he is like yet. What do you think i should say to him, and how should i respond to my friend's message ?. Lol i must admit, i laughed when i read the part about her not trying to set me up xD. I'd like to see what happens though, as i am single. I'm 26 and he is 32. She mentioned his age to me in another message, and she said he is a nice guy, and she has said quite a few times that he really wants to meet me. Reply to this Question
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reader, Fefi  +, writes (10 August 2010):
 Lol, that is funny, probably what my crazy friend would do to me. I wouldn't worry, your friend is just really trying to help, and ignoring this guy would hurt both him and her. Think of it more as a friend date than a DATE date, even if he is not yout type, he can still be your friend :)
Now, what to say to the guy :S
Im not good with that sort of thing, my horoscope is libra, i can NEVER decide..
Maybe just talk to him like if you knew him for ages, ask where he's from, his family, and if he has pets [very important! it will show if hes the really lonely type] after that you should be so into it that when you come out of the cinema, you dont remeber what movie you just watched XP
feedback and tell me how it goes :)
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