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writes:Ok so i'm having some boy trouble. So this boy and I used to be good friends. I've always had a crush on him and he's always been there for me. On the last day of school he even kissed me, even though he reassured me that we're only friends. Well ever since this summer things have been going down hill. I've had mulitple family members in the hospital, and a lot of stress. Too add to this my friend and i have been fighting. Well today we got into a big fight and he said that he doesn't want to be friends anymore and that he's completely done with me. ever since this summer everythings gone downhill and I really needed..even though he says I don't. He once said that I was special, i'm having a hard time believing him.. What do I do about this whole problem? I'm so scared that he'll hate me....
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (10 August 2010):
Honey, you cant stop him from feeling what he's feeling right now! it sounds to me he feels a Lil left out, even tho he should understand what you have been going through and if thats the case he should be a Lil more sensitive and understanding to your needs! sometimes when we go through stress in our life! our moods and actions change of who we are and over take our minds! and we say and do the wrong things. but the ticket is to try to talk again and tell him to please listen to you and give you a chance to explain and if he still feels the same then you can respect that. and also tell him that you want to hear him out too! and go from ther that is all you can do. and if that is walking away and letting your friend go at least you know you did what was best in your heart! and that was to try to save your friendship!! and you will know that you did try w/ all your heart! good luck!
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (10 August 2010):
 I suggest apologising to him for the fight and telling him you are feeling so bad about all the problems with your family and not acting normally at the moment. Then you can ask him for another chance.
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