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I love her but she says she's not ready to say it yet, what does that mean?

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Question - (10 August 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 August 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay, so i have been dating this girl for a few months and im convinced that i love her even though im still kinda young. I told her and she said that shes not ready to admit that she loves me yet because its a big deal, she did say that she likes me more than she has liked anyone she has ever dated. what should i do?

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A female reader, kayjaydeex United Kingdom +, writes (11 August 2010):

i had two friends like this , its all of a matter of time , she cares about you so much that she tells you the truth , and to be honest the truth is very good from what youve said , your both heading in the right direction just give her time and shel say it when shes ready but i definately think that this is certainly not a bad thing x

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (10 August 2010):

The Realist agony auntI was in that same situation with my current gf. If you love her then wait and give her some time. I had said to my gf that if by six months she still couldn't say then I must be doing something wrong and thats how I would feel. You don't want to put too much pressure on her though because you want it to come naturally when she does say it.

Have patience you may be the first guy she has ever really loved and that will hear her say it so it is a scary thing for her. Your love will help her realize that she loves you and will say it sooner than you think.

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A female reader, BlondeBabe x United Kingdom +, writes (10 August 2010):

BlondeBabe x agony auntEveryone is different so experiences things differently all that has happened is you have fallen in love a little quicker. You don't have to do anything, all you have to do is be paitent. She obviously likes you it will just take her a little more time.

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A female reader, theaboo United States +, writes (10 August 2010):

theaboo agony auntGive her time! You guys are very young! Consider yourself lucky you found a girl with her head screwed on straight who isn't willing to just say it to appease you! :)

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