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writes:I need help when i was 13 i lost my virginity to my cousin i know what you are thinkin EWWW GROSS!! but i dont wanna hear it! well now im 14 and my cousin is 18 now and we still have sex once in a while and we use a comdom but im scared because i think i could be pregnant but the thing is that i havent missed my period i've been having my period so idk if i am pregnant..and the thing is that my cousin has a 16 year old girlfriend and she is pregnant so idk what to do and i really love him and he says he loves me to...what should i do??? if im pregnant should i keep my baby or should i have an abortion???...by the way he's the only guy i've ever had sex with...what should i do?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (10 August 2010):
 I don't think you are pregnant. Get tested. Then stop sleeping with your cousin. Not because he is your cousin.. although having a child with him would be extra complicated, but because you are not old enough to be having sex, and he can go to prison for having sex with if it is found out. True. It is called statutory rape. You are too young to be making up your mind about having sex or not, and he is an adult now that he is 18, and him having sex with you will be defined as rape. In other words: he should know better. Second, he has a girlfriend! Whom he has knocked up! And he is a cheater... you do NOT want to be in a relationship with a cheater who has sex with minors and knocks up 16-year olds. He sounds selfish and like a douche bag. You will most definitely find someone better.
So stay away from him! And if he wants to have sex with you again and you can have him leave you alone, tell your parents what he did. Tell them that he had sex with you and now wont leave you alone.
So, take a pregnancy test. Only after you find out if you are pregnant or not should you worry about what will happen about a baby. But, you being this scared of being pregnant is a good sign that you are not ready for sex. And I am sorry to tell you, but your cousin has sexually abused you. So please, do stay away from him. Or even better: report him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2010): Okay you've been using condoms and have had your periods, I don't think that you#re pregnant, but I do think that your cousin is using you for sex. You're much younger and easily influenced, if he truly loved you , he wouldn't be having another girlfriend he'd just be with you, and you know that. He's using you.
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reader, sinki  +, writes (10 August 2010):
Hey lady
Honestely darling you should stop having sex with your cousin. What if your parents find out about this? What are you going to say to them? I'm not going to advice you have an abortion or not that is your choice but you should stop doing this.
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reader, T-Marie  +, writes (10 August 2010):
 Hi there,
First of all although in some places it is legal to enter into relations with your cousin. It is most certainly illegal to have sex with ANYONE at your age!! If somebody found out about it your cousin would be arrested, and he would be charged, the fact that you consented is irrelevant because you aren't old enough. This would result in him being placed on the sex offenders register.
What makes you think you are pregnant if you are still having your period?
I honestly don't think you should continue seeing your cousin, if not for any other reason than that he has a pregnant girlfriend.
Hope this helps xxx T
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