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Been talking to a guy for eight days and it already feels like he's the one...am I crazy?

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Question - (10 August 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I know I'm not inlove but it sure feels like it. I've been talking to this dude for about 8 days now. We've never met before and we plan on meeting when I get back. I feel like he's the "one". I know it may sound weird, and I'm young and blah blah blah..but this so isn't me talking. I think it's just different to me because I always say I want love, and I wanna fall inlove and all that jazz. But now that it could happen I feel like its all too good to be true. And that something has to be wrong. Lastnight I talked to my best friend and I even gave her the convos myself just to see her opinion on this..and she told me to stop thinking negative. He's a total sweetheart and I've never cared or liked someone instantly. I feel like I've found my soulmate. Am I talking foolishness? He's 19 and I'm 17, and I know we're young but could this really happen? At first I thought he was just chatting with me to get in my pants..but he always tells me that he just doesn't want to be another guy in my life..he wants to eventually be my lover. Is this all a trap? I don't know, but the feeling is just amazing. I thnk the day we meet in person..I'll know, but until that day I can do nothing but daydream.

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice United States +, writes (10 August 2010):

Fatherly Advice agony auntPersonally, I think you are right to worry. LDR with a guy older than you. It is going to be pretty easy for him to manipulate your feelings. I do hope you have done a background check on him. If I was your dad, I'd pay for it.

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