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writes: hello ,i have a problem , i know this guy he was a really good friend and we got along really good he is 3 and a half years older than me, he asked me to go out with him and i said yes we werent getting along so he broke it off with me , so about 6 months later we got in touch again he told me he had a new girlfriend and me and her became friends but me and my guy friend secretly had an affair he said he loved her and that me and him was never gonna get serious so i was ok with that but i told him i was madly in love with him and he said he cant love me so we just went on with it so a few weeks later him and his girlfriend broke up me and the guy became good friends again but things were awkward but now he is ignoring my texts and phonecalls and i am madly deeply in love with him i would die for him and he is worth it please help me and tell me what i should do ? thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you barbielashes i hope this helps because i dont think i can live without him..
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reader, Barbielashes +, writes (12 August 2010):
Honey, I know it's hard but if he just broke up with his girl his head is already going to be in bits. Just let him know you're there for him if he needs you then . . . . Leave him be. If you give him enough space he'll come round of his own accord if he wants to talk to you. Boys are more responsive when you don't harass them, your patience will pay off. In the meantime, take your mind of him and fill your time with other things. Wish you the best.
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