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writes:id been with my bf for 3 yrs and he showed me affection.love and cares,, also to my family...can you tell me if a man can just pretend for 3 yrs that he really love me?his breaking up with me on the phone because i add some of his realatives on my facebook wherein his mom asked me to do it? in 3 yrs we never have a fight.. although sometimes we have some sort of misunderstanding, but it just takes an hour and he worked it out right away,,.what do you make him decide to broke up with me when he finds out that i am doing facebook with some of his relatives.And is it possible that after 3 yrs, he can just figured it out that were not compatible,. After 3 yrs that we'd been together? help me what to do because his a very tough man..
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni just did that facebook thing just for me to see his mom's pictures since we'd been talking on the phone for 3 yrs and yet i don't have any idea how does she looks like. and so his mom told me to add his uncle on my facebook since that man has a plenty of family pictures on his facebook. and so i did.
my ex bf really hates internet. actually one time his son add me to his facebook, and i was surprised when he did. the boy said he get my email add to his gram and so he add me.. and while we do the emailing his dad came to my room that time and i am excited to tell him that his boy is on line.. first, i was thinking he will be happy talking to his son on the internet. but when he put on the msg that his kind of mad and that he tells his boy to have a better excuse when he got back because the boy will going to have some. and that time, i told him thats not nice. that there is nothing wrong with that facebook thing. and then he told his kid to delete his account.. i felt ashamed on the boy because i don't want him to think that i put him in trouble with his dad.
about his mom? she always been nice to me eversince she found out that i am his son's girlfriend. she was so happy. i know that one of the reason is that she's looking forward that one day his son will going to marry me( as what she always wish and telling me) since she's old to take care of my ex bf kids. but i don't gave that a big deal. and i know that she's really a nice person. or should i say , a good friend to me.
I don't know what to tell my ex when he got back here since his breaking up with me on the phone but still he wants me to wait for him because were going to talk.
I celebrate my bday last week and he didnt even greet me on that day. Even email, he don't. should i call him on his bday next week , just to simply greet him? what to you think? what would be the best thing to do to know whats on his mind since he really don't talk that much everytime we talked after the break up.. NO email from him for a bout more than i month. and i did stopped emailing him, and calling him. I still care for him, especially his kids. but i dont know what will be the best thing for me to do? should i just wait for him untill October.. PLEASE,,PLEASE HeLP me...
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reader, theaboo  +, writes (10 August 2010):
 Being friends with his family on facebook seems like a lame excuse.. That can't be the real reason he broke up with you. If you never had a fight, then it is possible that he fell out of love. Sorry.
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reader, candygirl_iraq  +, writes (10 August 2010):
I don't think he faked it. I assume he has trust issues and that when you added other males,even if they were relatives of his that gave him a sense that you were not trustworthy.That ofcourse is NOT justified at all. If he has issues he should work them out before he gets into a serious relationship,and if he didnt like your social online life then he could have talked to you about it. Why is his mom interfering anyway?? Thats what I didnt get.
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