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writes:I am absolutely in love with an idiot and i don't know what to do. I don't want to dump him because i know i cant live without him but i think it would be better for me if i did leave him. but i cant. I think he takes me for granted. he gets off with me happily and that, but sometimes he goes ahead and ignores me and flirts with other girls. I just don't know what to do. he makes me feel so happy and on top of the world sometimes but sometimes he makes me feel so depressed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2010): I would hate it. It isn't fun. But, some people flirt because that's the way they have learned to relate to the opposite sex. He probably doesn't know he is doing it or if he does, doesn't understand why it hurts you. Wake up call.
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reader, kayjaydeex +, writes (11 August 2010):
nobody should do this to you or make you feel depressed , talk to him tell him how you feel, you shouldnt feel the need to be attactched to someone at such a young age my advice is just to tell him that what hes doing hurts you xx
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reader, Booshfan1 +, writes (11 August 2010):
That's a tough situation, you wrote that he makes you feel on top of the world sometimes but sometimes he makes you feel so depressed, in my opinion the negative outweighs the positive, you shouldn't stay with him if keeps making you feel depressed, move on to someone else who will actually care about your feelings and won't upset you. I hope this helps you. :-)
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reader, Fefi  +, writes (11 August 2010):
 You may think you're in love with him, and maybe you ARE, but you'll be most likely to laugh about it in the future and think, 'what did i see in that jerk?'
what i would do is leave him, because im pretty sure you two got together just by his 'charming' flirt as well, if he loved you back, he wouldn't dare flirt with other girls. Especially, if he KNOWS that you know he flirts with others, he's only taking you for granted.
The truth hurts, but life is like that, no one's perfect; and anyway, you still have many years ahead of you, i'm sure you will find a macho who can make you feel on top of the UNIVERSE ...
tell me how it goes ;)
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