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writes:I have this friend who is really nice and sweet and at the same time very immature. Thing is i think i like him but im not sure and i want to be with someone who is more mature and doesnt curse so much!!Dyou think he will change? i guess what im trying to ask is if i should give him a chance or would it just be a huge mistake? Is what im looking for even possible? lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010): Hmm hes in mature in the way that he drinks alot, and in the manner of his language use, he's also very opinionated in the way that it can seem rude.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2010): Define how he is immature.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2010): I guess you could see how things go with him, but I think you should only do that if you think you can deal with him being more immature than you would like. I personally don't think it's a good idea to get involved with someone with the hopes they will change. It usually ends with the other person being disappointed and waiting for that person to change and be more how they would like them to be. That person may never change, so you could be waiting for a long time.
So if you think it's a small matter and something you could accept, then I think there might be a chance. But if you would prefer someone more mature, as you said you would, then I think he may not be the right person for you. He is as he is, and if you are already having doubts about a relationship with him and if it would work or not, then I don't think that is the right kind of basis for anything more than friendship. x
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