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writes:Hello I have found a amazing girl that I met through school and have been speaking to her for a year, we get on really well and can always make eachother laugh, I realised I had feeling for her around 8 months ago and told her 2 months later,she does not feel the same way unfortunatly but i am convinced one day she will. We hang around with the same group of people at school. It depresses me seeing her right all over her facebook how much she loves someone although she never gives a name, she is single and when she went through difficult times with her previous boyfriend I was there to help her I know I whould treat her the way she desserves but I dont know were to start Especially now its the 6 weeks holidays and i.ve only seen her once since we broke up. I miss her and cant stop thinking about her, I have just closed my facebook account as it just seems to make things worse i really dont know what to do
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reader, Booshfan1 +, writes (11 August 2010):
I am in virtually the same situation the only differences are that I haven't told her how I feel and that we don't hang around in the same group. What I would do is, ask her out but also say the things you have said in your article, how you can't stop thinking about her and that you would treat her right etc. If she says no then just leave it (you might feel sad if she says no but you will get over it, and you will move on, trust me) but if she says yes then there's nothing else left to say really, you would be with the girl that you care so much about. I really hope this helps you. :-)
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reader, Fefi  +, writes (10 August 2010):
 Aw, hun, don't worry. Seeing as you're on your holidays [so am i!] this will be the perfect chance to paralise your relationship, and when you get back you will have so much to talk about, which will only make you closer.
You said that she does not feel the same way to you, but you are convinced one day she will?
That's it, you're going the right direction, you're being positive about yourself, that's what matters and that will strengthen any relationship you have in the future, so i hope that when you two meet again, things will change. who knows, maybe one day she will? huh?
PS: dont close ur facebook, people will be wondering what will have happened to you, and if you want to push the pain of her love for another, you're going to have to face the pain and go forward!!
feedback after holidays ;)
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