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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I just don't know what's wrong with me anymore.Almost 5 years ago, I had (still have) a unrequited crush on a girl. Now, not just any girl. She was different. After getting to know her, I thought about her all the time.Everytime I saw her, she made me feel invicible. Everytime I looked at her, I saw a future. Y'know, kids, grandkids, big house, 2 cars in the garage. All of that. I thought about her night and day. We had amazing chemistry and conversations.But ultimately, she rejected me. And throughout high school, and after it I was bitter. But after awhile, I learned to not live like that.Now in college, I started having interest in another girl (which btw is'nt going to go anywhere, even though I haven't tried.) Recently, I learned that my unrequited love has gotten married, to the guy she passed me up for no less and it really has gotten to me. I've fallen back into depression.I keep thinking of the might have beens, and I feel that there is no closure. I keep thinking of her, and still long for her.My insurance won't cover a therapist and the anti depressants don't help much.Is there any hope for me? I feel like I'm never going to get over this heartbreak?
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (10 August 2010):
 In reality your obsessive over her, in my humble opinion you need to get out and find someone else. It will help you forget about her and move on to become a stronger person.
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