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I want him to text me without asking him to.

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Question - (10 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 August 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *rissichavous writes:

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Well, there's this guy in my class that comes over at my desk everyday and we talk. And he told me to text him yesterday and so I did after I got home from school, and we talked for a while and then I texted him something and then he stopped texting, and then today he told me that he texted me back, which I knew he didn't and he knew he didn't either. So, today he was like let me see your hand and stuff and was trying to hold my hand (hes in 12th im in 10th) and he said you better text me and stuff like that. And I know him well, cause I use to talk to him alll the time, use to go over his house all the time cause I use to be his older brother's girlfriend but we broke up this weekend.

Well anyways, he texted me during class, and then I didn't text him back cause he said whatr you doing and I said just got done talking to a hot guy. and then he said oh well whats he look like? but I didn't reply because I didn't want to seem to easy, so he walked over to my desk and was flirting with me and everything. Now I want him to text me today but he hasn't yet. I don't know if I should wait, or text him. I think if he texts me I can talk him into going to a movie with me this friday night! :) thankss

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010):

My advice would be to calm down - it seems like a lot when it's all swirling in your head like that but I would wait for him to text you. If the next time he sees you he asks why you didn't text him, just remind him he didn't text you either - and see what he says then.

Sometimes people need to be reminded that you're thinking of them, so you shouldn't always rely on him starting the conversations, but every once in a while it's okay to throw in a silence and see what the other person does.

Hope this helps! Xx

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A female reader, Practical  +, writes (11 August 2010):

Practical agony aunt

if u want him to contact u stop contacting and texting him too much but be friendly and outgoing ..

advice: If u want a happy emotional life, never have high expectations, and never be demanding .. just go with the flow ..

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