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writes:I have a dilemma...I am equally in love with two men.Liam and Shane....I have been with Liam for the last four years and thinks have been good.Shane,however,is in love with me and i love him too...we talk for long stints of time talking about being together and our feelings for eachother.Liam is a reliable boyfriend who i know will always support me,never cheat,and i will have a stable future with. Shane is exciting and crazy about me but doesnt have the same prospects.It seems silly to think about the future and marraige at such an early stage of life but i cant help but wonder.Liam and I decided to take a break ( i initiated it) so we could see what its like to be apart and hopefully bring a spark back into our relationship..while on this break I hooked up with Shane and things were better then my best dream,i have honestly never been happier. However,a close friend of Shanes died a few days into our romance and he has gone into a solitary place and wont talk to me.i went fromm having two love interests to nobody..I dont know wether to just get back with Liam or wait weeks,months or even years for shane to get back on his feet...HELP!
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reader, SniperAJ  +, writes (17 August 2010):
stop what youre doing! It seems you and Shane have a more friendly relationship as you can speak for hours on end. It may be that you hooked up because deep down you felt you had to. After being with Liam for four years, you dont fall out of love so easily and you certainly cannot love two men equelly. Nobody is asking you to marry and make babies immediatly, but the prospect is there which means you have security. However, if you feel your heart is with Shane then let it be. But, you need to have a deep think of whats going on with your head and your heart.
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