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*loveyouuuu13
writes:i went through my boyfriends phone the other day when he wasnt by me and i saw that he talked to this girl on the phone. but see she's just not any girl! she's his exgf.and it was the night he totally ignored me because he got drunk (he wasnt talking to me so i was like ok well have fun with whatever youre doing im going to sleep, (evne though i really wasnt) and i never got a goodnight or anything so i was mad)i dont care who he talks to, but if you can talk to some other girl, then you should be able to take 2 seconds out of your time to text your girlfriend back.i know I shouldn't have gone through his phone but he's so sketchy that I just had to do it when he wasn't by me,she called him, then he called her back an hour later. and then they must have hung up and then he called her back a minute later after that.so I didn't get to see how long they talked for. but I'm pretty mad.but he always tells me he's not cheating cause I always think he is and he told me if I keep thinking that and accusing him he's gonna break up with me.i don't wanna tell him I looked through his phone cause I'm honestly not as crazy and it may seem haha and I just don't wanna start anything between us.but like what do I do?!I'm pretty mad!he tells me he's not cheating and that he's not like that. and the only reason why I'm so insecure is cause every guy has cheated on me. and I just don't want him to do that. he tells me he loves me, he goes to school 7 hours a day and then we usually hangout after. but I just don't understand why there were talking on the phone..i dont know if i should confront him, or let it be. and just wait to see if theres anything else going on?
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reader, iloveyouuuu13 +, writes (11 August 2010):
iloveyouuuu13 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwelll yesterday i told him because i kept thinking about it and it as driving me crazy. and he calls me and hes like why did you go through my phone and im like idk i just did. and hes like you dont trust me? and im like i never said that. im like you go through my phone. and hes like no i dont. and im like are you serious right now. you do it infront of me! and he called me a liar. and im like seriously! so hes like ok well wanna know waht i really did and im like yes i do. and hes like youre gonna get mad. and im like tell me. and hes like no. and im like well if im gonna get md then its something bad and hes like no, i just know how you are. youre gonna get mad. im like tell me! so hes like ok well i really went to her house cause she wa having a party (which i dont believe) and then i was like did you cheat on me and hes like no and im like and you expect me to belive that. you can text me back saying im crazy and tell me the next day you dont remember doing that, so that means you probably dont even remember hooking up with her. and hes like i can control myself. and im like yeah. and i hungup. and he texts me saying i went there cause she is leaving for school. (which im pretty sure he said that to make it seem like it wasnt that bad) and then he calls me and is like can you stop being mad. and im like um no. you lied to me. idk why you couldnt tell me that in the first place. i still text you if i go get drunk. and hes like im sorry i just know how you are. and im well obviously im gonna get mad!
so i hung up on him and we didnt talk for three hours and then he texts me to tell me hes going to go run and im like ok? and then i fell asleep.
i dont know waht to do!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010): umm yea... has he given u any other reason to think he's cheating on you..? i know this is gonna be hard but try and watch him... see how he treats you.. there must be other reason's also???.. otherwise why shud u be so insecure.. think of that too.. face the facts.. and if you think he's not gud enough for you or treats you badly.. you dump him..
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