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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for awhile, and I really want to take the next step with him, but I;m a virgin. Every time we start, I tighten up and i mean i know its going to hurt to try. It always ends up with him not being able to enter. I really want to relax, but I guess I start to over think things or something. Does anyone have any ideas of how to relax? Reply to this Question
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (11 August 2010):
 have glass of wine if all else fails. not to get drunk. just to loosen you up a bit. and it really doesn't hurt all that bad. try not to pump it up too much.
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reader, PLAYFUL +, writes (11 August 2010):
 Think of him he make you happy think of how you it will be with the guy u love making love use you mine and let yourself go free with him hope it helps...xox
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reader, Boombadaboom  +, writes (11 August 2010):
 Happy thoughts :) even as simple as thinking of your favorite meal :p relaxed is relaxed, you'll get into the mood once you get going. Try a bunch of stuff, use something else instead before he penetrates. Maybe try lots of foreplay, candles, maybe in the bathtub so the water relaxes you too, get tipsy maybe, have good music playing, lots of good ways to get your relaxed, you should try it. If it's not the guy you want, then there's another problem :P
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reader, Allybaby  +, writes (11 August 2010):
im guesing your inlove with him ? when "its" happening just try to think about how much you love him , and how important he is to you . not about all the myths about sex . and maybe you should try reading up about sex . knowing everything about it will either change your mind , meaning your not ready , or reasure you that he is the one yu want to share this specail moment with . :) hope that helps
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