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writes:I'm a fifteen year old girl, going into year 11 at high school. Most of my friends are in a 'serious relationship' or have been in one. I've had guys interested in me before, but I've never been compelled to start a proper relationship with any of them. My close friend says that I may be scared of commitment. It's not that I don't ever want to be in a relationship, because when I'm older I want to get married and have kids. But now, I can't stay a boyfriend for more than 3 weeks max. Have you got any tips on overcoming this fear? Thanks :) Reply to this Question
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reader, AznXoXsparkz  +, writes (18 August 2009):
 WelL.. YOUR like the girl i would go for.. someone whos shy but yet compelled to your feelings and thoughts..
Im liking this girl whos confuse about her feelins and im gettin really close to her.. and hopefully sHE would come around and yeah..
She never had a boyfriend ..and afraid be commitment aswell.. but if she doesnt come around i can always wait for her
who knows ?
if a guy who willing to wait for you.. hes worth your time (:
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reader, BadderzGirl +, writes (18 August 2009):
Wow, this is freaky! I asked the exact same question a couple of days ago!
I'm 17 sweetie and you shud really take rhythmandblues2 advice into account.
I understand how ur feelin, all my mates hav relationships and my longest one was 4 months and three of those we didn't see each other!
I want to get married and have kids too but I think we just need to wait for the right guy (preferably a prince charming lookalike) to come along.
There's no point getting too involved at our age anyway, we're at school studying and things that start in school almost never last anyway so I've made a little promise not to get involved until uni, but for now, I'm just gonna enjoy life
Gd luck with GCSE's!
Hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): I think you are a perfectly normal 15 year old. Why on earth would you want to be in a serious relationship when you are still just a girl?
I know that your friends may think they are in the best place in their lives being in a serious relationship, but I disagree. I think when you are in your teen years, the best thing to do is to focus soley on figuring out who you are and what you want to do with your life, finding a career for one because husbands die and they can leave you on your own with children. You are best to be able to support yourself and find things in life other than just family that you can be passionate about.
Your friends don't know what they are talking about....you are just fine.
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