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*azza123
writes:ive been liking this girl for a couple of months and when i starting like her she wasnt single but now she is and she sed she like likes me a little but still loves another boy what should i do should i ask her out or any thing what i should do ? Reply to this Question
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reader, AznXoXsparkz  +, writes (18 August 2009):
 Relax, and flirt with her.. just have fun .. who cares if she loves another man even if she cant get it.. be the one for her..
But dont be the rebound .. be the man who gives all you can to make her happy. let her know you be craving for her
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): There are a couple of things you should be aware of. 1) the scenario you are going after has a high possibility of causing further drama, love triangles and insecurities, 2) "likes you a little" is very possibly that she doesn't know how to be clear. She can very well be giving you the idea she may pick you one day - like a back-up.
During high school, I know these things may not seem to matter very much - love triangles and drama, but know that it can get into other areas of your life and cause a lot of problems. Next thing you may realize is coming back to DearCupid in trying to solve fighting issues, insecurity issues, break-up issues, love triangles, etc.
Just know whether you really want to involve yourself into these things before you actually do it.
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reader, jessjess +, writes (18 August 2009):
 Don't ask her out. Not just yet anyway. Show her you are serious about wanting to be with her, but don't pressure her. If she is still getting over someone she needs a little time for herself to think things through and get herself back together again before she can move on. If she knows you like her she will have that to consider. The best thing you can do, trust me, is to be her friend. And just her friend. Then, when she IS ready to move on to someone new, you'll be waiting in the wings and if it's meant to happen between you, it will. Just be patient :) Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): I think you should go for it! Even if she loves another guy, maybe she just needs to see that there are other guys out there. Maybe that other guy will be you. She's going to get tired of chasing something she can't have. So be there for her. Be everything for her that the other asshole didn't give her. :]
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