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writes:i'm having a hard time understanding how come i can't break up with my boyfriend. He's hasn't done anything wrong I just wish we spent more time together, i'm trying to be understanding because he's a firefighter plus he runs a 24 hour business.i ask him if we should split he doesn't say yes or no. What should i do???? plz help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanku all for input.
Important question 2 the lady tht was married for 11 yrs. U didn't seperate or divorce because he was busy did u.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): talk to him. tell him u feel ul arent spending enough time together. Say you know he's busy but he could shell out half and hour a day at least to meet you and probably an hour to talk to you. ITs the least he should do.
see what his response is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009):
See it as a choice between accepting this person with this disadvantage versus looking for someone who doesnt have this particular disadvantage. And deliberately enjoy whichever option you take. Whichever option it is, it'll belong to you and you can like it.
Giving him responsibility or blame for the choice will only make you remain confused. You have to take control and then you wont be confused anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): He's a busy guy, and most likely will always be that way. so if I was you, talk with him and let him know you need special time together. maybe you should make the plans. if he doesn't come through for you, then he might not be the one for you. This doesn't mean he doesn't love or care for you,it may just be that it's his nature to be a busy guy.... I was married to one for 11 years.
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